The title... yeah i got the idea of the title of this post from Mr.Hard Rust of Hard Alley. His article actually made me think a lot about the people I know in second life. I have seen a lot of people in sl in 2 years and all I can say that SL is growing into 2 parts. 1st group of people who are into sex and are proud of it. A girl said to me few days back I know how to suck a cock in second life and i am extremely good with words so why should I keep it a secret ?
True Enough. We all do want to be envied. According to her people who are shunning sex talks and discussions are not confident about their sexual skills so they are happy to keep it a secret. Honestly even from the male point of view... while you are having sex would you like another man walk by and say hey don't fuck like this..? And it would really be awkward if your partner did feel better with the new way. That would definitely hurt you inside somewhere and you may feel totally inexperienced and incapable in front of your partner.
I guess that is the reason quite a handful of people decide to shun and look down upon second life sex discussion and events.
I have introduced a few female and male friends of mine into bdsm for last few weeks and the outcomes are amazing. They are actually enjoying sl a lot more.
My question is that in real yes its very awkward to have public sex or even discuss about sex openly. But why not in second life ? Whats wrong in learning something new ? Its not that every member in second life has a phd when it comes to kamasutra !
The funny thing is I have met a few real life pornstars in second life and few real life elite adult actresses too in second life and they can hold on a perfectly good intellectual conversation regarding ethics,occult,spiritualism and science subjects as vivid as neutrinos to brain synapses..
On the other hand the so called "cultured" people in second life can hardly hold on a conversation more than building something, dramatic relationships in second life and of course shopping !
So its very clear to me that who actually is enjoying second life..
So if you are shunning sex in second life.. I am sure you are missing out a lot unless there is some real reason for it !
True Enough. We all do want to be envied. According to her people who are shunning sex talks and discussions are not confident about their sexual skills so they are happy to keep it a secret. Honestly even from the male point of view... while you are having sex would you like another man walk by and say hey don't fuck like this..? And it would really be awkward if your partner did feel better with the new way. That would definitely hurt you inside somewhere and you may feel totally inexperienced and incapable in front of your partner.
I guess that is the reason quite a handful of people decide to shun and look down upon second life sex discussion and events.
I have introduced a few female and male friends of mine into bdsm for last few weeks and the outcomes are amazing. They are actually enjoying sl a lot more.
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| Sex Poses Second life ! |
My question is that in real yes its very awkward to have public sex or even discuss about sex openly. But why not in second life ? Whats wrong in learning something new ? Its not that every member in second life has a phd when it comes to kamasutra !
The funny thing is I have met a few real life pornstars in second life and few real life elite adult actresses too in second life and they can hold on a perfectly good intellectual conversation regarding ethics,occult,spiritualism and science subjects as vivid as neutrinos to brain synapses..
On the other hand the so called "cultured" people in second life can hardly hold on a conversation more than building something, dramatic relationships in second life and of course shopping !
So its very clear to me that who actually is enjoying second life..
So if you are shunning sex in second life.. I am sure you are missing out a lot unless there is some real reason for it !






